Related: I’m Gay but Want a Straight Life Dear Curious in Minnesota, Let me first start out with saying that you are definitely not alone in this. As with so many other things in life, if you are uncertain if you like something or not, you just have to take a leap of faith and try it out. Then when you try it, you may be pleasantly surprised or very disappointed.
Many guys – and girls too for that matter – will try almost anything at least once. You only live once and if you have this on your mind and cannot live without the answer, then go for it.
This dilemma is something so many women have had to deal with in their lives.
Like a Greek tragedy or a love triangle out of a really sad novel, you fall in love with a guy, the guy is in love with another guy, and that other guy is in love with you. Some gay men may not even have the appetite to kiss a woman, much less progress to intercourse with her.Let’s face it: it’s easy to say or believe that you’re in love with someone—that new intern at work who gets you coffee in the morning, that hot guy in the apartment next door, the member of that new boy band, or even just a random guy who winked at you at the bar.It could just be a crush or infatuation, or maybe you just admire the way the cute guy at your favorite deli knows how to prepare your turkey sandwich just the way you like it.Furthermore, I couldn’t deal with anyone I know finding out I have this fantasy. I’d say for every three sexual thoughts I have about women, I have one about servicing a guy. If I try to ignore this am I likely to develop some kind of mental issue?Or should I do it once, just to have a gay experience, and try to “get it out of my system”?