For example, the judge might disapprove of the dating spouse's behavior and develop a bias against them.
While such a bias is ostensibly unacceptable in the U. legal system, judges are human and biases are natural and even probable in some instances.
Phrases such as, “If you loved me you would”, “I act crazy because I love you so much,” “I’ll die (or commit suicide) if you leave me,” are tactics of a manipulator.
…misinterpret codependency and “rescuing someone” as mercy and kindness. Is this person looking for someone to relieve the pain of their situation? …minimize the vast complexities of second marriage.
If timed properly, and prepared for, it can be a fascinating season in life.The person who has completed the hard work of mending a broken heart will understand your need to ask. And then listen when they reveal any detected “red flags.” …ask God’s protection from anyone who could jeopardize you or your children’s safety. Flee no matter how cute or charming he or she may be!! …place yourself in situations where sexual temptation can be fulfilled. …use dating to fill the void and fear of loneliness. …rush into intimate settings that naturally point you to a deeper commitment.If your date avoids telling you what broke up the marriage and/or what part they played, RUN…don’t walk. …I’ve heard it said that you can know a person’s character and priorities by examining his or her calendar and checkbook. It often blinds you to the truth and can lead to re-marrying someone you shouldn’t. It lessens your inhibitions and allows you to say and do things you normally wouldn’t. …give your address or personal information early in the relationship. Ladies, don’t EVER get into a car or secluded place with someone you don’t know well. Examples might be: weddings, expensive restaurants, and candlelight dinners. A movie or play, coffee or lunch, the museum or park, bowling or golf are better choices. Doing so signifies you are ready to get serious with that person. This is a clear indication of an unsafe relationship.Most people dash into dating before their weary, wounded heart is ready.Loneliness is a compelling motivator to “get on with your life” but understand that you are extremely vulnerable.